I remember when caring for our hair was almost like a cultural ritual. As a teenager, I remember how intrigued I would be whenever I saw healthy hair whether relaxed or not. I found it so fascinating that I couldn’t wait to have the means and independence to treat my hair the way I liked…
Dear Elohor, I’m in a relationship with this really great guy. But the problem is, he hardly saves. Any money that comes in, he spends. He earns well but doesn’t have a single investment. He spends all he has without saving a dime. The only things he plans to buy are gadgets, home appliances, and…
Hey Elohor. I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for over a year now, and with the look of things, he’s moving towards proposing. Honestly, he’s a great guy. He’s amazing, but my challenge is that I don’t find him physically attractive. I have always loved and wanted a tall man, but he’s really…
Question“Ma, I want to ask… a guy I’m not even in a relationship with yet (and he’s a pastor) asked me if I have ever done an abortion before. He says he wants me as a wife and is asking these questions to know if I’ve done anything that will affect my ability to have…
I used to be a skincare girlie — the one with multiple skincare products lined up neatly on the shelf, a dedicated five-step routine, and unwavering consistency with every single regimen. To me, self-care was synonymous with skincare. In other words, my commitment to skincare was proof that I was taking care of myself. I…
