At surface level, the phrase soft girl is easy to misinterpret. It sounds fragile, too gentle, and almost powerless. Like someone who can be pushed around, trampled on, spoken over, or dismissed. Someone who melts under pressure. But here’s the thing: a soft girl is not weak, confused, or without sense of direction. Rather, it…
Tiwa Savage Isn’t ‘Getting Old’—She’s Becoming Timeless There is an inexplicable kind of discomfort that settles in whenever we see a woman ageing. It often disguises itself as concern, criticism, or unsolicited commentary, particularly when that woman exists in the public eye. In recent conversations around Tiwa Savage, the focus has shifted from her voice,…
There comes a point in life where guilt stops being useful. It no longer teaches, corrects, or protects you. It only drains you. This year, I am choosing peace over performance, rest over constant explanation, and ease over unnecessary struggle. I am realizing that I don’t owe the world a version of myself that is…
For the longest time, the ponytail was the “emergency” hairstyle. It was what we did when we were running late for a lecture, heading to the gym, or when our hair was three days past its wash date and we just needed it out of the way. It was practical, sure, but it was rarely…
Hey Sis.I’m a disabled young lady who is so scared of her future. I clocked 28 this year and all my life, no man has ever looked at me, or even approached me. I have never ever felt attractive. I’ve never felt beautiful. I’ve never been complimented. I know my situation but I believe I…
