If you have attended a Nigerian wedding or birthday celebration, chances are you have seen at least one person dressed in a flowing garment. At first glance, it appears simple, loose, unstructured, almost understated. But look again. It carries presence, and moves differently. It does not cling, yet it commands attention in its own quiet…
Today’s world often praises emotional detachment, and indifference is easily treated as strength. In many spaces, the ability to remain unbothered is seen as power. Everything around us feels hard, fast, and unforgiving. For women in particular, the pressure is real. Be soft and agreeable, or strong and hardened. Be nurturing and give your all,…
If emotions were a person, some of us wouldn’t just greet them. We would create rooms for them, cook, and ask about their well-being. We all feel things, but then we all feel things differently. Some deeply, loudly, completely or lightly. So the question for us becomes: “Is there actually a thing as being too…
