We keep calling it casual sex, but it rarely stays that way. Casual sex means physical intimacy without serious commitment, sexual intercourse without responsibility toward one another. It is termed “no strings attached” because it is framed as a connection without consequences. In this arrangement, emotions are expected to remain neutral; it is presented as…
Social media is the new-age courtroom, and here the judge is not present, the array of lawyers comes parading with ring lights, and the verdict is delivered in the comments section. Globally, social media has replaced the village square meeting, only it is more vicious now. Unlike the village square, where elders moderated disputes with…
If emotions were a person, some of us wouldn’t just greet them. We would create rooms for them, cook, and ask about their well-being. We all feel things, but then we all feel things differently. Some deeply, loudly, completely or lightly. So the question for us becomes: “Is there actually a thing as being too…
The Hidden Cost of Comfort Comfort is not a bad thing. Let me say that first. We all need comfort. After long days, pressure, disappointments, and expectations, comfort feels like rest. It feels like safety. It feels like finally being able to breathe. And for many women, comfort is not chosen out of laziness, but…
A Woman’s View of AFCON 2025 and the Chaos We Love Nothing unites Africans like AFCON, and AFCON 2025 was doing just that until it wasn’t. AFCON doesn’t sneak in; it announces itself with a bang, way before the first whistle of the tournament goes off. The African Cup of Nations, AFCON, is a biennial…
